Perhaps she and Barakoti will move to Iowa, which not only allows gay marriage but also ruled recently that both parents in a same-sex marriage be allowed to have their names listed on a child's birth certificate. That would make Holder a legal parent of their daughter.
Holder fights back tears. "It's extraordinary," she said. "I can't believe (the court) supported my family. It's amazing to me."
She cannot imagine what life is going to be like without having to worry about all this. But she can't wait to find out.